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How do I start to find LOVE for myself through Grieving?

Writer's picture: Cristie ShoemakerCristie Shoemaker

Hello Beautiful Tribe,


Starting to find love for yourself through grieving can be a complex journey. It's important to allow yourself to feel and process your emotions without judgment. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist to navigate the grieving process. Practice self-compassion and focus on self-care activities that bring you comfort and solace. Over time, as you work through your grief, you may discover a deeper appreciation and love for yourself.


Here are some steps you can take to begin finding love for yourself through the grieving process:


1. **Allow Yourself to Feel:** Give yourself permission to feel the full range of emotions that come with grieving. It's okay to experience sadness, anger, confusion, and even moments of happiness.


2. **Practice Self-Compassion:** Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend. Be patient and gentle with yourself as you navigate your emotions.


3. **Seek Support:** Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide a listening ear and emotional support. Talking about your feelings can help you process them more effectively.


4. **Journaling:** Write down your thoughts and emotions in a journal. This can help you gain insights into your feelings and track your progress over time.

5. **Mindfulness and Meditation:** Engage in mindfulness exercises or meditation to stay present and connect with your inner self. These practices can help you manage stress and anxiety.


6. **Self-Care:** Engage in activities that bring you joy and comfort. Whether it's reading, spending time in nature, taking baths, or practicing a hobby, prioritize self-care to nurture your well-being.

7. **Set Boundaries:** Be mindful of your limits and set boundaries with people and situations that might trigger or exacerbate your grief.


8. **Celebrate Memories:** Honor the memories of what or who you've lost. Create rituals or activities that allow you to remember and celebrate the positive aspects of what you're grieving.


9. **Focus on Growth:** Use this time of introspection to explore your values, desires, and personal growth. Identify areas in your life where you can make positive changes.


10. **Patience and Time:** Healing and self-love take time. Be patient with yourself and recognize that progress may come in waves.


Remember that finding love for yourself through grieving is a unique and personal journey. It's okay to seek professional help if you're struggling to cope with your emotions. The key is to give yourself the space and support you need to heal and grow.


I offer an array of services for any budget, to help guide you through your journey. I can also do distant sessions. Please reach out.


You are not alone✨🫶


Love & Light,

Cristie Shoemaker

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